Love is blind

I finally understand all the women out there who get beaten yet fell trapped in a relationship. Then there's the woman out there who's getting mentally abused and can't seem to get out, or the women who know that their men are cheating on them and they still don't seem to realize what's going on right in their faces. Love. It's blind, and it shields you from seeing things that you would logically notice. Like when you call your man and another female answers the phone, or when you call several times and get no answer. Maybe when you call and 9 times out of 10 there's another call coming in after 3 minutes of talking, and it seems to be so important that he has to end the conversation with you. Or when he claims that he can only talk to you after 9 because he doesn't have enough daytime minutes on his cellphone...who is he talking to for hundreds of minutes...Especially when he gets free incoming calls...which by the way tells me that he's the one making all these calls to eat up both his daytime minutes, and his phone battery, which always seems to be low...prob only when he's talking to me. How can someone see all these things happening right in their face and still pretend like it's not real? How can anyone sit and make excuses for this kind of behavior. My head hurts thinking about this...Love...it's sick and twisted. All I have to say is what goes around comes around.